Monday, May 23, 2011

Advice and Life Quotes

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Advice Quotes

Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't. - Erica Jong, "How to Save Your Own Life," 1977

Some people like my advice so much that they frame it upon the wall instead of using it. - Gordon R. Dickson

When a man comes to me for advice, I find out the kind of advice he wants, and I give it to him. - Henry Wheeler Shaw, a.k.a. Josh Billings

The best advice is this: Don't take advice and don't give advice. - Anonymous

It is a good divine that follows his own instructions. - William Shakespeare

Old men are fond of giving good advice, to console themselves for being no longer in a position to give bad examples. - François La Rochefoucauld

When we ask advice we are usually looking for an accomplice. - Charles Varlet de La Grange, "Pensées," 1872

The best way to succeed in life is to act on the advice we give to others. - Anonymous

Few take advice, or physic, without wry faces at it. - Augustus William Hare and Julius Charles Hare, "Guesses at Truth by Two Brothers," 1827

We hate to have some people give us advice because we know how badly they need it themselves. - Anonymous

The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right. - Hannah Whitall Smith

It is more easy to be wise for others than for ourselves. - François Duc de La Rochefoucauld

In giving advice seek to help, not to please, your friend. - Solon

No one wants advice - only corroboration. - John Steinbeck, The Winter of Our Discontent

I never had a man come to me for advice yet, but what I soon discovered that he thought more of his own opinion than he did of mine. - Josh Billings

Sometimes I give myself admirable advice, but I am incapable of taking it. - Mary Wortley Montagu

I always pass on good advice. It's the only thing to do with it. It is never any use to oneself. - Oscar Wilde, "An Ideal Husband" play, 1895

A good scare is worth more to a man than good advice. - Edgar Watson Howe, "Country Town Sayings," 1911

Nobody can give you wiser advice than yourself. - Cicero

More importantly, advice on being true to yourself:

To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting. - e.e. cummings, 1955, American poet

He who trims himself to suit everyone will soon whittle himself away. - Raymond Hull

God has given you one face, and you make yourself another. - William Shakespeare

All my life I had been looking for something, and everywhere I turned someone tried to tell me what it was. I accepted their answers too, though they were often in contradiction and even self-contradictory. I was naïve. I was looking for myself and asking everyone except myself questions which I, and only I, could answer. It took me a long time and much painful boomeranging of my expectations to achieve a realization everyone else appears to have been born with: that I am nobody but myself. - Ralph Ellison, "Battle Royal"

The life of every man is a diary in which he means to write one story, and writes another. - James Matthew Barrie

Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation. - Oscar Wilde, "De Profundis," 1905

Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else. - Judy Garland, singer, played in "Wizard of Oz" movie, original version

We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others that in the end we become disguised to ourselves. - François Duc de La Rochefoucauld

If you cannot be a poet, be the poem. - David Carradine, American actor, "Kung Fu" TV series

A man who is "of sound mind" is one who keeps the inner madman under lock and key. - Paul Valéry, "Mauvaises pensées et autres," 1942

I am told to just be myself, but as much as I have practiced the impression, I am still no good at it. - Robert Brault

The great majority of us are required to live a life of constant duplicity. Your health is bound to be affected if, day after day, you say the opposite of what you feel, if you grovel before what you dislike, and rejoice at what brings you nothing but misfortune. -

It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are. - e.e. cummings, American poet

Almost every man wastes part of his life in attempts to display qualities which he does not possess, and to gain applause which he cannot keep. - Samuel Johnson, "The Rambler," 1750

Hateful to me as the gates of Hades is that man who hides one thing in his heart and speaks another. - Homer

How many cares one loses when one decides not to be something but to be someone. - Gabrielle "Coco" Chanel, 1930's French clothing and perfume designer

"Be yourself" is about the worst advice you can give some people. - Tom Masson

I think of life itself now as a wonderful play that I've written for myself, and so my purpose is to have the utmost fun playing my part. - Shirley MacLaine, American actress, first actress to broach the subjects of spirituality and reincarnation to the public, often ridiculed for decades, now validated years later.

Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself. - Harvey Fierstein

Learn to... be what you are, and learn to resign with a good grace all that you are not. - Henri Frederic Amiel

I am much better employed from every point of view, when I live solely for my own satisfaction, than when I begin to worry about the world. The world frightens me, and a frightened man is no good for anything. - George Gissing

No man can climb out beyond the limitations of his own character. - John Morley

There is just one life for each of us: our own. - Euripides

Never apologize for showing feeling. When you do so, you apologize for the truth. - Benjamin Disraeli

If God had wanted me otherwise, He would have created me otherwise. - Johann von Goethe

Wherever you go, go with all your heart. - Confucius, Chinese philosopher

Let the world know you as you are, not as you think you should be, because sooner or later, if you are posing, you will forget the pose, and then where are you? - Fanny Brice

Every time you don't follow your inner guidance, you feel a loss of energy, loss of power, a sense of spiritual deadness. - Shakti Gawain

At bottom every man knows well enough that he is a unique being, only once on this earth; and by no extraordinary chance will such a marvelously picturesque piece of diversity in unity as he is, ever be put together a second time. - Friedrich Nietzsche

The most exhausting thing in life is being insincere. - Anne Morrow Lindbergh

Originality is... a by-product of sincerity. - Marianne Moore

Almost all absurdity of conduct arises from the imitation of those whom we cannot resemble. - Samuel Johnson

If you are ashamed to stand by your colors, you had better seek another flag. To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting. - e.e. cummings, 1955

All the knowledge I possess everyone else can acquire, but my heart is all my own. - Johann von Goethe, "The Sorrows of Young Werther," 1774

When one is pretending the entire body revolts. - Anais Nin

It is not only possible to be the person you pretend to be, but there is less effort involved. - Robert Brault

We are betrayed by what is false within. - George Meredith

No man for any considerable period can wear one face to himself and another to the multitude, without finally getting bewildered as to which may be the true. - Nathaniel Hawthorne, "The Scarlet Letter"

Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth. - Oscar Wilde

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. - Dr. Seuss

No creature is fully itself till it is, like the dandelion, opened in the bloom of pure relationship to the sun, the entire living cosmos. - D.H. Lawrence

Men weary as much of not doing the things they want to do as of doing the things they do not want to do. - Eric Hoffer

It is the chiefest point of happiness that a man is willing to be what he is. - Desiderius Erasmus

Like the sky opens after a rainy day we must open to ourselves... Learn to love yourself for who you are and open so the world can see you shine. - James Poland

All the mistakes I make arise from forsaking my own station and trying to see the object from another person's point of view. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Be what you are. This is the first step toward becoming better than you are. - Julius Charles Hare

We all wear masks, and the time comes when we cannot remove them without removing some of our own skin. - André Berthiaume, "Contretemps"

An unfulfilled vocation drains the color from a man's entire existence. - Honoré de Balzac, "Scnes de la vie Parisienne," La Maison Nucingen, 1838

He who travels in search of something which he has not got, travels away from himself and grows old even in youth among old things. - Ralph Waldo Emerson, "Self-Reliance"

There lurks, perhaps, in every human heart a desire of distinction, which inclines every man first to hope, and then to believe, that Nature has given him something peculiar to himself. - Samuel Johnson

You must have control of the authorship of your own destiny. The pen that writes your life story must be held in your own hand. - Irene C. Kassorla

Is life not a hundred times too short for us to stifle ourselves. - Friedrich Nietzsche

You were born an original. Don't die a copy. - John Mason

It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for something you are not. - Andre Gide

There is in a man an upwelling spring of life, energy, love, whatever you like to call it. If a course is not cut for it, it turns the ground round it into a swamp. - Mark Rutherford (William Hale White), More Pages from a Journal, 1910

Once conform, once do what others do because they do it, and a kind of lethargy steals over all the finer senses of the soul. - Michel Eyquem de Montaigne

Most of our faults are more pardonable than the means we use to conceal them. - François, Duc de La Rochefoucauld, Maxims, 1665

Man would be "otherwise." That's the essence of the specifically human. - Antonio Machado

Individualism is rather like innocence: There must be something unconscious about it. - Louis Kronenberger, "Company Manners," 1954

Why try to be someone you're not? Life is hard enough without adding impersonation to the skills required. - Robert Brault

We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be. - Kurt Vonnegut

One's real life is often the life that one does not lead. - Oscar Wilde, "L'Envoi to Rose-leaf and Apple-leaf," 1882

The white light streams down to be broken up by those human prisms into all the colors of the rainbow. - Charles R. Brown

Rabbi Zusya said that on the Day of Judgment, God would ask him, not why he had not been Moses, but why he had not been Zusya. - Walter Kaufmann

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